To April: All i can say its loots of foreplay. Mess around for a day maybe to send flirt emails or naughty text messege something to make the anticipation almost unbarbable than finally when you meet at night you’ll(hopefully) be so sexually frustrighted you won’t be able to control your self and will be bale to have a good time. or even experiment talk to one another find out if there is anything you like maybe him saying your name or wearing a costume maybe even a innocent massage turned in to something more just experiment have fun with it you are married put it to good use.

April: Start with the things that you know turn you on and get your husband to do that to get you more in the mood! Think about what it is that gets you in the mood all day, plan it out in your head to get that from (or give to!) your husband and then jump him for a change!